Question: Hi Diane, I work with a woman who wears her earbuds all day and never takes them out. Knowing…
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Dear Diane, I was recently invited to an acquaintance's (a professional colleague’s) home for dinner. It was a lovely affair…
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Dear Diane, I am hosting Easter dinner this year, and my menu includes a dessert and a ham glaze which…
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Dear Diane, It’s been a “long hard minute” since I have seen the inside of my office and in a…
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Dear Diane, I have been working from home for the past eight months and I feel as if I have…
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Dear Diane, There are so many new social rules when it comes to spending time with people outside of my…
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Dear Diane, My fiancé and I have been engaged for two years and we are now planning our wedding—and money…
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I am on summer break from college, and after a semester of online training due to COVID-19, I fear I…
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What is the first thing I should do if I need to cancel our wedding? Consult your wedding planner and…
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Due to the coronavirus pandemic, all of my friends and I have found ourselves working from home...
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Do you have any ideas for avoiding loneliness while I am social distancing?...
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Dear Diane, Questions have come up around the designations in my email signature from time to time and I am…
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Hey Diane, I have a travel pet peeve and I am wondering if this is something you have tackled. I…
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Dear Diane, Who pays on the first date? I have recently joined the online dating world and I find myself…
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Dear Diane, I am in a Valentine's Day dilemma. I have planned a much-awaited reunion with three of my high…
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Dear Diane, I need your help! I'm hoping you can offer advice as to how to handle a situation I…
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Dear Diane, I recently came to the realization that I might be sabotaging my own career! If you were to…
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Dear Diane, My one year work anniversary is just around the corner (I have two months to go at the…
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Dear Diane, I recently graduated and have started my first job. My boss has scheduled me for a shift I…
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Dear Diane, My wife and I recently relocated to the coast of South Carolina and are delighted at the array…
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Dear Diane, My fiance recently surprised me with a pair of AirPods for my birthday. Now that I am wearing…
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Dear Diane, I’ve worked at my current job for six months and have fallen into the habit of eating lunch…
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Hi Diane, I have a question I haven't seen addressed anywhere yet and am hoping you can shed some light…
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Dear Diane, The CEO of my company recently announced an unanticipated restructure. While I like to pride myself on generally…
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Dear Diane, I recently landed a full-time position at an engineering firm that was in my top three choices when…
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Dear Diane, I would like your opinion on something. I recently found the Enneagram personality types and the information has…
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Dear Diane, My department made the switch to Slack for project communications several months ago, and overall, it’s been a…
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Dear Diane, After ignoring my gut instinct for several years, I think I’m finally ready to pursue a new career.…
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Dear Diane, Like many others, I’m enthralled with the Netflix series Tidying Up with Marie Kondo. I’d like to channel…
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Dear Diane, I’ve been interviewing for new job opportunities in 2019 and am thankful to say I’ve received two solid…
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Dear Diane, I have recently become fascinated with the tradition of tea, in great part because I enjoy reading your…
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I recently answered a reader question about Afternoon Tea etiquette in honor of National Hot Tea Month. Here's another tea…
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Dear Diane, I work from home and often visit a nearby coffee shop for a midday pick-me-up and a change…
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Dear Diane, Lately, I’ve been feeling inspired to host my very first Afternoon Tea for a few close friends. Of…
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Dear Diane, I’m in the market for a new job opportunity after being unexpectedly let go from a startup. Their…
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Dear Diane, My 91-year-old grandmother gave me a gold watch for Christmas last year. Sadly, I don’t like it and…
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Dear Diane, I’ve always thought that regifting is fine as long as the item is newly wrapped and there is…
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Dear Diane, I’ll be meeting my fiancé’s family for the first time over the holidays. I’m invited to their mountain…
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Dear Diane, Having friends and family over for our annual Christmas movie marathon is a highlight of the season. My…
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Dear Diane, My longtime boyfriend and I recently parted ways; we realized that our goals were entirely different and we…
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Dear Diane, I notice that some of my friends invite us over for “dinner” while others use the word “supper”…
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Dear Diane, I’ve recently changed my eating habits and have experienced better health and finally gotten my weight under control. I…
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Dear Diane, I was wondering about your thoughts on cell phone use during dinner. (I think I can guess your…
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Dear Diane, This year I’m hosting my first Halloween party. I’ve hosted smaller events at my house in the…
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Dear Diane, I have a question regarding thank you notes. My grandmother passed away a week ago and my family…
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Hello Diane, A friend of mine is expecting a baby and I volunteered to throw her a baby shower.…
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Dear Diane, A friend of mine recently shared some of my personal information on social media without my consent.…
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Dear Diane, My boss recently left and I am struggling with “what’s next” for me. His position has not…
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Dear Diane, I have a sister in law who consistently “toots her own horn” every time we get together…
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Dear Diane, I have found myself in the midst of a medical situation which has caused me to make…
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Dear Diane, A group of friends are planning a baby shower tea party. We would like for it to…
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While the holidays are typically joyous occasions, they can also bring sadness to those who are mourning a loss of…
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Dear Diane, I am at a loss. Valentine’s Day is around the corner and I want to send a special…
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If you're hosting Thanksgiving dinner this year, this table setting guide is a useful tool to help you set the…
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Thanksgiving is synonymous with heart and home. For those who are just starting out and establishing their own family traditions,…
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While Thanksgiving is a ritual that often involves a combination of relatives, rich food, football, travel and mandatory family togetherness, Friendsgiving is,…
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When planning a wedding budget, it’s easy to feel overwhelmed or get confused on who should get a tip. With…
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Dear Diane, My company just started using Slack and I’m having all sorts of anxiety! I’m learning how to use…
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Dear Diane, I am a new college graduate and I am recently faced with going on multiple job interviews. Many…
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Dear Diane, I've been considering online dating for a while, but I don't feel prepared to take the plunge. It's…
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Dear Diane, I work closely with a colleague who wears very strong scented cologne. I go home with a headache every…
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Dear Diane, I love to entertain and often invite people over to my apartment for dinner. I am always stumped…
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Dear Diane, It’s hot outside and my boss won’t let us wear anything sleeveless during the work day. Is it…
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Dear Diane, My husband and I are moving into our first house and I'd like to throw a housewarming party.…
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Dear Diane, My mother-in-law is recently divorced. She’s been spending a great deal of her free time going out with…
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It finally happened! Uber has announced they are rolling out a new feature allowing passengers to tip their driver with…
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Diane Gottsman answers your vacation tipping questions. This segment aired on WOAI Channel 4 San Antonio Living.
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If you're a pet owner, you're likely on a first-name basis with your local groomer, particularly if you own a…
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Dear Diane, My husband says I’m too pushy when it comes to working with our contractor and his employees who…
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Tipping can be confusing under the best of circumstances. Add air travel, hotel stays and ground transportation and you can…
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Dear Diane, I work in tight quarters and am looking for some ideas on how to maintain a productive work…
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Dear Diane, I have been looking for a job since I graduated in December. I have yet to find a…
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Dear Diane, My brother is getting married on July 1st. There will be an outdoor ceremony and indoor reception. I…
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Dear Diane, I live in an apartment complex where we have assigned parking. My neighbor always parks too close on…
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Dear Diane, I've been with my job for a little less than a year and I would like to take…
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Dear Diane, I recently watched a television segment where you mention a Mother’s Day gift for daughters. Is this something…
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Dear Diane, I have heard that the only person who can wear white to the wedding is the bride. I…
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From overweight suitcases to oozing shampoo bottles, packing mishaps are common for many travelers. Whether you’re commuting for business, pleasure…
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It can be tough to find your dream profession; millennials know this first hand. Young professionals finding their calling frequently…
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Sharing a meal with a valuable client or trusted industry resource is a good way to break bread and cement…
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Everyone knows the frustration of an overflowing inbox. Given the sheer volume of messages, most people simply can't read them…
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You have purchased the beautiful white dress and heels but suddenly your walk down the aisle has taken a detour.…
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Whether sailing the ocean blue or traveling to a distant land, a destination wedding may be in your future. Before…
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Whether traveling to a distant country or cruising the ocean blue, a destination wedding may be in your future. Before…
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Dear Diane, Now that Spring is here it's time to switch out my winter work clothing for lighter fabrics,…
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Planning your big wedding day is no small feat. Between selecting the perfect invitation to finding the right vendors, the…
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Dear Diane, I was recently invited to a house party. When I arrived, the host asked me to remove…
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Dear Diane, I have always heard that first impressions matter. I am wondering how important they really are when it…
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Dear Diane, I am considering hiring an extra set of hands for my company. I have been told by many…
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Dear Diane, I am interviewing for a new job and am finding it difficult to write a cover letter without…
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Dear Diane, I recently received an email from someone who addressed me as Mr., when I am a female with…
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Dear Diane, I am 23, recently out of a two year relationship and looking to put myself back out there.…
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Dear Diane, One of my best friends has been dating a guy for almost three years. They recently broke up…
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Dear Diane, I’ve been dating a guy for almost three months, and I’m curious about Valentine’s Day which is…
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Dear Diane, I recently started working for a company that offers an extensive training program. During the training, we were…
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Dear Diane, After tying the knot several months ago, my husband and I are finally getting around to organizing the…
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Dear Diane, Easter is in a few days, and I always get stumped when I serve gravy from my grandmother’s…
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Dear Diane, I was recently brought in to assist the accounting department for a large manufacturing business. Since joining the…
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Dear Diane, My fiancé and I are in the process of reviewing several catering options for our wedding this summer.…
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