Feb 05 Formal Dress Attire: The Definition of Black Tie By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My wife and I are excited to attend the annual spring business gala hosted by my legal firm.…Read More
Jan 29 Dinner Invitation Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, We were recently invited to a longtime friend's home for dinner. As soon as we arrived, we found…Read More
Jan 26 Airplane Etiquette: How to Deal with a Talkative Seatmate By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My job requires weekly travel, providing me with the opportunity to meet some very interesting people. During my…Read More
Dec 07 Destination Wedding Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Next spring, one of my friends is having a rustic country wedding at a scenic, California ranch.…Read More
Dec 03 Making a New Holiday Gift Giving Tradition By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, During the holidays, my siblings and I typically purchase presents for each other’s children. In the early years,…Read More
Dec 02 Office Happy Hour Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am a part of a collaborative co-working space that has many perks. For instance, every Friday our…Read More
Nov 11 Losing a Gift: Friendship Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, One of my friends, who does not have a lot of expendable cash, gave me a gorgeous…Read More
Oct 29 Making a Career Change By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, After a brief hiatus, I’m eager to jump back into a career in the tourism industry, but…Read More
Oct 26 Social Media Etiquette – Your Online Image By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I have two children in college who spend a large part of their free time connected to social…Read More
Oct 19 Travel Dilemma By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert, Social Etiquette Dear Diane, Six months ago, I agreed to attend a family reunion my sister is planning. When she asked me…Read More
Oct 14 Interview Etiquette: Tattoos By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, As a recent college graduate, I am in the midst of the job search process. With an interview in…Read More
Oct 05 Office Etiquette: What to Do When You Stain Your Clothes By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Last month I was chosen to lead a team-building presentation for my entire department. While working through my…Read More
Sep 28 Business Etiquette: When Colleagues Give You a Nickname By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I have been trying to resolve an office predicament regarding my name. I began a new job several weeks ago…Read More
Sep 21 Dining Etiquette: Splitting the Bill By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Recently, a few friends of mine planned a weekend retreat in Chicago. Our local host recommended we visit…Read More
Sep 17 Bathroom Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I need your to help settle a bet. Ever since my husband and I got married, we haven’t…Read More
Sep 03 Baby Shower Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My friend recently moved from Florida to California, and I will fly in for her baby shower. However,…Read More
Aug 25 Dinner Party and Entertaining Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Hello Diane, My wife and I are big on etiquette and entertaining and have made a real effort to include…Read More
Aug 17 Dinner Party Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I recently attended a housewarming dinner party for one of my coworkers and had a wonderful time. I…Read More
Aug 10 Business Attire Advice By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am a recent college graduate and find myself in new territory when it comes to putting together…Read More
Aug 04 Baby Shower Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My son and his wife are expecting a baby and asked to use our home for their baby…Read More
Jul 10 Job Interview Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert, Interview Etiquette Dear Diane, I recently landed a job at a corporation that has been on the top of my list since…Read More
Jul 06 Birthday Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Every year I start to receive birthday cards and gifts from my family as early as one month…Read More
Jun 26 Business Travel Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am new to my company and recently attended an out of town business meeting with some colleagues…Read More
Jun 17 Father’s Day Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My father is 85 and unable to leave his house without requiring extensive effort to accommodate his wheelchair…Read More
Jun 11 Job Interview Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Hi Diane, I interviewed last Tuesday with the HR Director of a University for a position in an academic department.…Read More
Jun 04 Friendship Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I recently reconnected with a high school friend and we met over lunch to catch up on each…Read More
May 26 Business Etiquette for Late Employees By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I have an employee who is constantly late to work. On average, he arrives tardy to the office…Read More
May 15 Client Texting Dilemma By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, With a career in sales and marketing, it’s standard to include my cell number on my business card…Read More
May 07 Baby Shower Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, A close friend is expecting her first child and has asked me to kindly host her baby shower.…Read More
Apr 30 Kentucky Derby Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Every year my friends and I plan at least one big trip and a few smaller outings together…Read More
Apr 22 Graduation Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, What is the rule of thumb when it comes to exchanging gifts between graduating seniors? My daughter was recently invited to…Read More
Apr 17 Business Attire Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, What is your take on sandals with hose? Our corporate policy states that sandals are allowed in the…Read More
Mar 31 Graduation Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, What is the difference between a graduation invitation and a graduation announcement? I received a card from my…Read More
Mar 09 Wedding Shower Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My daughter is having a small, private wedding with only a few friends and family members invited. She…Read More
Mar 06 Job Interview Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am currently interviewing for a job with a large company and am wondering about the protocol for…Read More
Mar 05 Houseguest Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Is it too much to ask a houseguest to clean their hair out of the drain? After their…Read More
Feb 27 Dining Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I was recently at a New York deli (visiting from a small town in Oregon) and ordered a simple…Read More
Feb 17 Wedding Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane: Is it okay to exclude my friends’ husbands when sending out invitations to my daughter's wedding? Most of…Read More
Feb 11 Travel Etiquette with Friends By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My friend and I recently took a trip, each of us bringing our one daughter. She chose the hotel…Read More
Jan 06 Thank You Note Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am getting married in a few months and have received several shower and early wedding presents. I…Read More
Dec 29 White Tie Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I was invited to an event that didn't specify the dress code clearly. What is the true definition…Read More
Dec 22 Family Holiday Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My son is coming home from college and is bringing his girlfriend. I still have teens in the…Read More
Dec 17 Holiday Gift Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Holiday Etiquette Dear Diane, My in-laws insist on giving my kids money instead of gifts. I think it's offensive and have voiced…Read More
Dec 15 Holiday Restaurant Tipping Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Is it customary to tip my restaurant server additional gratuity because it’s the holiday season? I’m always so…Read More
Dec 10 Holiday Etiquette: Where to Stay By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My family consists of two small children and we spend every holiday shuttling from one house to another…Read More
Dec 08 Gift Giving Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Do I have to give a present to everyone who gives one to me? I am having trouble…Read More
Dec 04 Polite Holiday Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, My brother is bringing his new girlfriend to my home on Christmas Eve. We generally all open our…Read More
Dec 01 Cyber Monday Office Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Today is Cyber Monday, the first day back after an extended Thanksgiving break. I can’t help but notice…Read More
Nov 26 Holiday Table Setting Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I have a question about table settings. I am confused as to which side the soup spoon is placed…Read More
Nov 24 Holiday Greeting Card Etiquette By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I am getting ready to send out my business greeting cards in a couple of weeks and I…Read More
Oct 27 Email Thank You for Job Interview By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, Should I email a thank you note after a job interview? Thank you, JRead More
Oct 14 Greeting Etiquette When in a Relationship By Diane Gottsman Ask the Etiquette Expert Dear Diane, I have a large group of single girlfriends and a wonderful boyfriend. We often get together for dinners…Read More